It’s tough to say accurately why you like someone or vice versa. We picked out the 8 most interesting emotional tricks that can make anyone instantly like you.
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1 Compliment them
If you tell someone else as authentic and kind, people will also relate you with those traits. The reverse is also correct: If you are always bitching people behind their backs, they will start to connect the depressing traits with you too.
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2 Try to Display Positive Emotions
Emotional infectivity describes what happens when people are strongly influenced by the moods of other people. People can instinctively sense the emotions of those around them. If you desire to make others feel cheerful when they're around you, do your best to communicate positive emotions.
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3 Reveal your Flaws from Time to Time
People will be fond of you more after you make a mistake - but only if they think you are a skilled person. Exposing that you aren't perfect makes you more vulnerable and acceptable toward the people around you.
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4 Emphasize Shared Values
People are more fascinated to those who are similar to them. This is well-known as the similarity-attraction effect.
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5 Tell a Secret
Disclosing a secret is perhaps one of the most exciting techniques. When you split some personal secret with other people, they sense your troubles and get closer to you. This hints that they can reveal some of their secrets in you too.
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6 Let them Talk about themselves
Try to be a good listener. Listening to others’ stories about their life rather than blabbing about yours could provide them more positive memories of your communication.
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7 Act like you like them
When we feel someone likes us, we inclined to like them too. So even if you're not confirm how a person you're communicating with feels about you, act like you like them and they'll perhaps like you back.
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8 See them the Way they Want to be Seen
People want to be observed in a way that supports their own beliefs about themselves. This experience is described by self-verification theory. We all search for confirmations of our views, positive or negative.
So, try these interesting tricks to draw people more toward you. And if any of these tricks worked for you let us know on the comment below.